What is "actually" imprtant???

What is actually important in life??? . People say love, money,intelligence,food,water,oxygen,friends. But the important thing in life is life itself.But do we think about life at any part of our life. There are people who think about future , appraisals ,exam results , love and love failures.I am not belittling any of it,but saying that without life anything would not have been in your experience.Please see that you cant deny the statement. .No body thinks about the essential quality of life and how alive they are in the world.

What is life then ? Is it the body we have, the thoughts we have , the emotions we undergo .I see that this body ,mind and emotions are not even reliable at any point of your life .When body is considered, you have seen yourself fat , lean , beautiful ,ugly at various stages of life . Similarly the mind , you want one thing yesterday and another thing today .The emotions are changing at greater pace than your body and mind. You are friend with your manager in the morning and hating the same person in the evening. These changes do not even ask your permission to happen. But you always lead your whole life deeply enslaved to those three dimensions.

If essential quality of  life is not your body ,mind or emotions then what does that life refer to. I can just say that life is how much aware and alive you are . That does not ring the bell. The intensity of life can be understood only by two ways.

•                  The first one is you have to clearly experience the limitations of the body , mind and emotions. The second way is that we should use our intelligence to understand the turmoil faced by others who goes by the ways of their body , mind and emotions. When i say that ways of mind ,body and emotions leads to turmoil , I m not belittling them, I just say they will lead you to limited life and you will not know any freedom in your life.
•                  The second one is to use our intelligence .But I could clearly see now a days intelligence is a slave to external comfort .You use your intelligence to buy medicines for BP and stress. But we are not even ready to use the intelligence to make ourselves free from stress.

The ultimate reason for this stupidity is we don’t know how our life happens. When I talk about life I don’t talk about the daily routine most of us do, not  knowing what actually happens between morning and night .I am talking about the life process happening within you. If you  really know the life from its origin to ultimate , the life you live will be like a play .You can walk though your life with so much involvement ,without having the slightest fear of  what will happen to me if I do this or that.

So what we have to do with this life . This question has to come if you are not sleeping while reading this blog .This blog is not about something .It is about our life what we have to do. Are you going to go through your life , being a slave to your body , mind and emotions or are u going to take your destiny into your own hands .This body , mind and emotions have created a concrete practices in the society , without any life in that. When we are children ,the life in us was so intense and we are laughing , dancing and singing. Once the child was being educated playing stops .Once a person gets a job dancing stops and once you get married your singing also stops. Education here is not a medium to enhance our aliveness , its just a way to improve your economic status. We study not for knowledge but for extra money .I am not belittling money . It would be more intelligent when people educated for excessive aliveness and happiness than excessive money.

Marriage do not happen between two lovers here. It happens between two business contractors called father-in-laws or two same religion followers called mother in laws. The qualifications for marriage is, what is the salary and how big the house and abroad chances and not the care and responsibility for the spouse .When a child is born and brought up , child has to get one rank better than the neighbor's child - this is the ego of the parents ; not allowing the child's natural talent to blossom.

This socio-economic problems will not end at all if we keep on correcting the external situations because these external situations not even 30 % in our hands . But people are continuously trying to go round and round and fail.

The solution to these problems is we have to see how actually life works .Problems are for family and society but please see clearly the experience of happiness or sorrow is for individual. Your experience your own feelings and the person next to you experience his .So experience is 100 % individual whether it is sex or love or happiness or sorrow , each one experience his and only his own .May be the switch for the experiences is outside. The seat of experience is always within you. If u have understood what I have said , the solution is simple. If the seed of experience is within you and if you have basic intelligence ,you will see that you don’t have to follow anybody because you are going to experience your results through out your life and not others’ in any point of time and you will not have the fear of getting lost in life. You will know the freedom of choosing your own destiny. Anyhow only you are going to feel it , make it in your own way. 

At one point of time people think it is selfish to follow your own way .But when individual experiences are concerned , there are actually the world and family and friends are existing only in their mind. Once if all your memories are destroyed , there are no family ,   friends and  also the world . In reality whatever u have got in your life is the memories in your mind. We just follow our memories and there is no  experience of reality in it.

Scientifically speaking , you don’t see what actually happens , you only see the image formed in your retina.You dont hear the actual things, you hear how it vibrates on your ear. You dont smell actual thing, you just smell how it smells in your nose. You don’t feel the actual things , you just feel how your body reacts to that substance.We have never known anything outside reality. We  have no connection with reality at all. We are just feeling our five senses and our memories and die one day. We are very lazy to accept it.

When we clearly perceive the life , the whole universe is just what we perceive with five senses where  each and every individual is a part of us and a part of our mind .If everybody has become a part of our mind then there will be no point in ego ,jealousy and hatred ( Do you have ego for a thought of you??? think) This is called INCLUSIVENESS .Let us make it happen and enjoy the freedom....I am dedicating this blog to everybody who are part of me ...THANKS